Playing the Waiting Game: Life on the Waitlist

For many seniors, April 1 marks the end of a long and often stressful period of uncertainty. Envelopes or emails from colleges will arrive, and the result is usually a definitive acceptance or denial. However, for students who are put on a college’s waiting list, the next steps are less clear. Due to Covid-19, waitlists are expected to be longer this year. With uncertainty around topics such as international students being able to get a Visa, families re-evaluating college cost, and the possibility that students will want to attend college closer to home, we anticipate that waitlist activity will occur throughout the summer. Here are some tips on dealing with life on the waitlist.

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Students who are wait-listed at a college should first focus on their acceptances.

Consider your options: Your first priority is to look at your acceptances, decide where you would like to go, and send a deposit signifying your commitment to that college. Although you may have your heart set on attending the place where you were wait-listed, colleges usually do not inform wait-listed applicants until June or later, which is past the deadline for securing your spot at another college  (some colleges have postponed deposit deadlines till June 1 this year).

Prioritize: When considering the different offers, you need to determine if you want to remain on any of the waiting lists and inform the college (or colleges) of your decision. Most colleges ask you to respond via email or the college portal stating your interest. If you are not passionate about attending a college that wait-listed you, do not remain on the waitlist. In an article from U.S. News and World Report, Eric Kaplan, a former associate dean of undergraduate admissions at the University of Pennsylvania, offers this advice to students who have been wait-listed: “If they are happy with their other choices, please don’t say, ‘Yes’ to the waitlist. They could effectively be taking somebody else’s spot.” Also, keep in mind that the chances of getting off of the waiting list are difficult to predict and vary depending on the school and the number of applications a school receives each year.

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Be sure to communicate with admissions about your interest in the college.

Be Proactive: If you happen to get wait-listed to your dream college, there are some steps you can take in order to better your chances of getting admitted. Once you have determined that this one college is indeed for you, write a concise but sincere email letter to the proper admissions contact. Oftentimes, this will be the person whose name is on the letter informing you that you have been wait-listed. You should also send a copy to the admissions representative for your region. This letter should briefly but specifically address why you are pursuing the school and any new developments that have taken place since you applied, such as awards or notable academic or extracurricular achievements:

 During second semester of senior year, I have continued to work on and improve my writing. This hard work paid off when I received an “A” on my senior research paper for English. My school also selected my paper as a submission to the district’s high school writing contest.

You might also briefly discuss how you have been spending your time off from school during the Covid-19 social distancing period. Perhaps you have taken up a new hobby or enrolled in an online course. You can also ask your guidance counselor, dean or perhaps even the principal to make a phone call to the college on your behalf. However, use this option with discretion, for most guidance counselors will only do this for one college. Further, it would be expected that you would attend the college if you were then offered a spot, so be sure this college is what you really want.

It is important to understand that if you are admitted from the waitlist, it is very unlikely you will receive merit scholarship awards. Although it is unfair, colleges usually take full pay students off the waitlist, not those who have significant demonstrated need. Therefore, only pursue the waitlist if aid is not essential for your family.

Ultimately, unless you have a compelling reason to pursue a college, prolonging the anxiety of the college admissions process by remaining on a school’s waitlist is not practical or helpful. Although the waiting list can seem like a last-minute reprieve from the dreaded denial, there are advantages to picking a school that has accepted you and looking ahead to your college career.

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